On the train a few minutes ago, some guy running to get inside the train got caught in the door. The door jammed his elbows, such that his full coffee with milk popped out of his hand, flew across the width of the car, and smashed right at the feet of a guy standing at the other door. That guy, dressed in business casual attire suffers his shoes and the bottom of his pants being drenched with milky coffee. If he’s lucky, it was hopefully not too sweet.
I was only three feet away as I too had just made it onto the train before its departure, and was the last person on without a coffee in hand. Fortunately, I had found a spot to tuck myself into under an air conditioning vent. Given the events of Monday, where the train on which I had ridden was packed, delayed, and without AC, I’ve been counting my blessings – and looking for vents with more than usual resolve.
The drencher looked on with was likely to be a combination of shock, disappointment, and embarrassment. His look seemed to try to convey that he was also a victim of cruel circumstance. In typical subway culture, people looked on with varying degrees of engagement, amusement, and dismissiveness. Most probably anticipated some sort of exclamation, if not an eruption proper.
The drenchee said not a single word though as he assessed the situation. He was obviously unhappy, but I think he handled it very well and with grace. I stopped short of telling him so given that I didn’t want to disrupt the fragile balance of silence, or be seen to be implying (or really, reiterating) blame.
Commuters are advised to avoid bringing food and drink on the trains for this very reason. There were multiple lessons here of varying degrees, but I extract and carry forward the one on grace – “forgive those who trespass against us”.